Welcome

Whether someone is facing illness, grief, loss, a major life transition, end of life, retirement, a difficult season, or simply needs someone to sit with them and listen, Beyond the Bedside offers a safe and supportive space to walk alongside them.

Beyond the Bedside provides compassionate, person-centred spiritual care and supportive services to individuals, families, healthcare teams, first responders, seniors, and communities throughout Niagara and surrounding areas.

My approach is rooted in compassion, dignity, presence, listening, and respect for each person’s individual beliefs, values, culture, spirituality, and life experience.

  • Compassion
  • Dignity
  • Presence
  • Listening
  • Respect
Chaplain Holly Desjardins, seated, smiling warmly
Chaplain

Holly Desjardins (Trasmundi)

Spiritual Care · Chaplaincy · Wedding & Funeral Celebrant

I offer compassionate spiritual care to people of all beliefs, whether you identify with a particular faith tradition, consider yourself spiritual but not religious, or are uncertain about what you believe.

Prayer, and scripture or faith-based support, are offered when requested and desired. My role is to meet you where you are and provide compassionate, respectful support.

You do not have to share my beliefs to receive compassionate care.

How I can walk alongside you

Support is individualized to what you need at that moment: at the bedside, at home, in hospital or long-term care, at a graveside or a wedding, or in a private virtual session.

Spiritual care & end of life

Individual Spiritual Care & Support

Sometimes people don’t need someone to fix anything. They simply need someone to sit with them.

Spiritual care provides a safe, confidential and non-judgmental space to talk about the things that matter most: faith, hope, fear, grief, relationships, meaning, purpose, forgiveness, uncertainty, illness, death, life transitions, or questions about what comes next.

Support may include
  • One-to-one spiritual care visits
  • Emotional and spiritual support
  • Active and compassionate listening
  • Support during times of uncertainty or crisis
  • Exploring questions of meaning and purpose
  • Exploring faith and spirituality
  • Support with spiritual questions or concerns
  • Prayer, when requested
  • Scripture or faith-based support, when appropriate and desired
  • Support with forgiveness and reconciliation
  • Support surrounding guilt, regret or unresolved feelings
  • Support during major life transitions
  • Companionship during difficult seasons
  • Support for individuals who feel lonely, overwhelmed or afraid
  • Creating a safe space to express thoughts and feelings without judgment

Spiritual care is available to people of all beliefs. You do not have to share my beliefs to receive compassionate care.

Hospital & Healthcare Spiritual Care

Being in a hospital can be frightening, overwhelming and isolating, not only for the patient, but also for family members and loved ones. Beyond the Bedside can provide supportive spiritual care to patients and families navigating healthcare experiences.

Support may include
  • Hospital visitation
  • Support during difficult diagnoses
  • Emotional and spiritual support during illness
  • Support for patients experiencing fear or uncertainty
  • Support for family members and caregivers
  • Spiritual support during emergency situations
  • Support surrounding end-of-life decisions and conversations
  • Sitting with patients and families during difficult waiting periods
  • Prayer and faith support when requested
  • Support during significant medical procedures
  • Support following difficult news
  • Support for families experiencing anticipatory grief
  • Support when a patient is nearing end of life
  • Presence with patients who may be alone
  • Support following death
  • Compassionate presence during moments when words are difficult to find

My role is not to replace the medical team. I provide an additional layer of human, emotional and spiritual support alongside existing healthcare services.

Palliative & End-of-Life Support

End of life is more than a medical experience.

It can involve fear, faith, family, unresolved relationships, memories, questions, hope, grief and the desire to find peace and meaning. Beyond the Bedside provides compassionate spiritual and supportive care to individuals and families navigating serious illness, palliative care and end of life.

Services may include
  • Spiritual support for individuals receiving palliative care
  • Companionship for individuals nearing end of life
  • Emotional support for family members
  • Support with anticipatory grief
  • Presence during difficult conversations
  • Exploring fears surrounding death
  • Exploring spiritual questions surrounding dying
  • Prayer and religious support when requested
  • Life review and reminiscence
  • Meaning-making and legacy conversations
  • Support with unfinished business
  • Support with forgiveness and reconciliation
  • Creating opportunities for meaningful family connection
  • Sitting vigil with a person who is dying
  • Supporting families during the final days and hours
  • Bereavement support following a death
  • Helping families create meaningful rituals or moments of remembrance

When appropriate and requested, I can work alongside palliative care teams, hospice providers, healthcare professionals, families and other support services.

Family & Caregiver Support

When someone is seriously ill, aging, dying or experiencing a major transition, the entire family can be affected. Beyond the Bedside offers supportive care for family members and caregivers.

Support may include
  • Listening and emotional support
  • Spiritual care
  • Caregiver companionship
  • Anticipatory grief support
  • Support following difficult diagnoses
  • Support during end-of-life care
  • Family conversations
  • Life review
  • Legacy conversations
  • Support following death
  • Remembrance
  • Prayer when requested
  • Helping families identify appropriate additional resources

Psycho-Spiritual Support

Beyond the Bedside offers a spiritually informed approach to exploring the relationship between a person’s inner life, values, beliefs, meaning, relationships and life experiences.

Conversations may explore
  • Identity
  • Meaning and purpose
  • Faith
  • Spirituality
  • Hope
  • Forgiveness
  • Grief
  • Loss
  • Relationships
  • Life transitions
  • Fear
  • Mortality
  • Values
  • Personal beliefs
  • Existential questions
  • Personal growth and reflection

This service is provided within a spiritual and pastoral framework. It is not psychotherapy, psychological treatment, psychiatric care, medical treatment or crisis intervention, and it is not intended to diagnose or treat mental illness. When a person’s needs fall outside the scope of spiritual care, appropriate professional referral will be encouraged.

Grief, loss & crisis

Grief & Bereavement Support

Grief does not follow a timetable.

Beyond the Bedside provides compassionate support to individuals and families experiencing grief following the death of someone they love, as well as during anticipatory grief and other significant losses.

Grief support may include
  • One-to-one grief support
  • Support following the death of a loved one
  • Anticipatory grief support
  • Support following a sudden or unexpected death
  • Support following a long illness
  • Support for caregivers experiencing loss
  • Support with changes in identity following loss
  • Talking through memories and emotions
  • Life review
  • Meaning-making
  • Spiritual questions surrounding death
  • Faith-based grief support when requested
  • Creating remembrance rituals
  • Memorial and anniversary support
  • Support during birthdays, holidays and significant dates
  • Legacy conversations
  • Support for families navigating grief together

The purpose is not to tell someone how they should grieve. It is to provide a compassionate presence while they find their own way through their experience.

Crisis & Critical Incident Spiritual Support

For patients, families, healthcare workers, first responders and entire teams.

Critical incidents can affect patients, families, healthcare workers, first responders and entire teams. Beyond the Bedside can provide spiritual and emotional support following difficult or distressing events.

Support may include
  • Compassionate presence following critical incidents
  • One-to-one support
  • Support for families
  • Spiritual care following traumatic events
  • Grief support
  • Bereavement support
  • Prayer when requested
  • Listening and debriefing support
  • Support following a death
  • Support following particularly difficult calls or situations
  • Referral to appropriate professional resources when additional care is required

This service is intended to provide supportive spiritual presence and does not replace psychological, psychiatric or medical intervention.

Seniors & care homes

Companionship for Seniors & Older Adults

Loneliness and isolation can have a profound effect on quality of life. Beyond the Bedside offers compassionate companionship to older adults who may benefit from meaningful conversation, connection and regular supportive visits.

Companionship may include
  • One-to-one visits
  • Conversation and storytelling
  • Life review
  • Reminiscing about family and meaningful experiences
  • Reading together
  • Spiritual conversation
  • Prayer, when requested
  • Discussing faith and life experiences
  • Supporting personal reflection
  • Encouraging meaningful connection
  • Emotional support
  • End-of-life companionship
  • Support during periods of transition
  • Family communication and supportive presence

The goal is not simply to fill time. It is to create meaningful human connection and a sense of being seen, heard and valued.

Retirement Home & Long-Term Care Spiritual Care

Partnerships with retirement homes, long-term care homes and senior living communities.

Beyond the Bedside can partner with retirement homes, long-term care homes and senior living communities to provide ongoing spiritual care and supportive programming. Services can be arranged for individual residents, families, groups or the broader care community.

Partnership services may include
  • Individual spiritual care visits
  • Resident companionship
  • Grief and bereavement support
  • End-of-life spiritual care
  • Family support
  • Prayer services
  • Faith-based gatherings
  • Non-denominational spiritual gatherings
  • Memorial services
  • Remembrance ceremonies
  • Life-review programs
  • Spiritual discussion groups
  • Meaning and purpose conversations
  • Support during transitions
  • Support following resident deaths
  • Staff support following difficult resident situations
  • Seasonal spiritual programming
  • Celebration of life services
  • Individualized spiritual care plans in collaboration with the care team

Programming can be adapted to the spiritual and cultural diversity of the residents being served.

For those who serve

First Responder & Emergency Services Chaplaincy

Paramedics, firefighters, police personnel, emergency department teams, dispatchers, emergency services staff, retired first responders and first responder families.

Those who serve others through emergency services regularly encounter situations that most people never have to experience. Beyond the Bedside can provide confidential spiritual and supportive care.

Support may include
  • One-to-one confidential spiritual care
  • Informal check-ins
  • Support following difficult calls
  • Support following fatalities
  • Support following traumatic incidents
  • Grief and bereavement support
  • Family support
  • Spiritual support
  • Prayer when requested
  • Critical incident presence
  • Staff appreciation and wellness initiatives
  • Memorial support
  • Support during career transitions
  • Support following retirement
  • Chaplain presence at significant events

The goal is to provide a trusted, accessible person who can simply be there when someone needs to talk.

Healthcare Worker & Staff Spiritual Support

Nurses, physicians, personal support workers, allied health professionals, administrative staff, volunteers and the wider healthcare community.

Healthcare professionals spend their days caring for others, often while carrying their own emotional and spiritual burdens.

Support may include
  • Confidential one-to-one support
  • Compassionate listening
  • Grief support following patient deaths
  • Support following difficult cases
  • Spiritual support
  • Meaning and purpose conversations
  • Support with compassion fatigue and emotional strain
  • Support following critical incidents
  • Prayer when requested
  • Remembrance and memorial support
  • Staff spiritual-care visits
  • Code Lavender-style supportive presence where appropriate
  • Support for teams following difficult events

The intention is to create a safe space where caregivers can temporarily step out of their professional role and simply be human.

Workplace & Organizational Chaplaincy

Healthcare organizations, emergency services, fire departments, paramedic and police services, retirement and long-term care organizations, funeral homes, community and non-profit organizations, and other workplaces with a need for confidential spiritual support.

Beyond the Bedside can partner with organizations that want to provide an additional layer of compassionate support for employees. Workplace chaplaincy can be particularly valuable in environments where employees regularly experience stress, grief, crisis, trauma or emotionally demanding situations.

Services may include
  • Employee spiritual support
  • Confidential one-to-one visits

Ceremonies & life celebrations

Celebration of Life Services

Every life deserves to be remembered with dignity, meaning and love.

Beyond the Bedside provides personalized Celebration of Life and funeral officiant services for families who want a meaningful ceremony that reflects the life and values of their loved one. Services can be religious, spiritual, non-denominational or personalized according to the family’s wishes.

Services may include
  • Celebration of Life ceremonies
  • Funeral services
  • Memorial services
  • Graveside services
  • Home-based services
  • Funeral home services
  • Spiritual ceremonies
  • Non-denominational ceremonies
  • Christian ceremonies
  • Personalized prayers
  • Scripture readings
  • Eulogies and tributes
  • Family and friend participation
  • Life-story development
  • Reflection and remembrance
  • Closing prayers or blessings
  • Support in creating a meaningful ceremony

I work with families to ensure that the service reflects the person who lived, the people who loved them and the memories they leave behind.

Funeral Home & Funeral Director Partnerships

Beyond the Bedside is available to work alongside funeral homes and funeral directors when clergy or chaplain services are required. Services can be arranged directly through the funeral home or family.

Partnership support may include
  • Funeral officiating
  • Celebration of Life ceremonies
  • Memorial services
  • Graveside services
  • Religious ceremonies
  • Non-denominational ceremonies
  • Family meetings
  • Eulogy preparation
  • Personalized prayers
  • Last-minute clergy coverage
  • Weekend or evening services when available
  • Support for families who do not have a clergy connection

Wedding & Marriage Celebrant Services

A wedding is more than a ceremony.

It is an opportunity to celebrate love, commitment, family and the beginning of a new chapter. Beyond the Bedside provides personalized wedding and marriage celebrant services.

Ceremonies can include
  • Wedding ceremonies
  • Christian wedding ceremonies
  • Spiritual ceremonies
  • Non-denominational ceremonies
  • Personalized vows
  • Traditional elements
  • Family participation
  • Readings
  • Blessings
  • Prayers
  • Unity ceremonies
  • Personalized rituals
  • Intimate ceremonies
  • Elopements
  • Outdoor ceremonies

Each ceremony can be personalized to reflect the couple’s relationship, values, beliefs and wishes.

Baptisms, Blessings & Other Life Ceremonies

Beyond the Bedside can provide personalized spiritual ceremonies marking important moments in people’s lives.

These may include
  • Baptisms
  • Baby blessings
  • Child blessings
  • Family blessings
  • Renewal of vows
  • Anniversary ceremonies
  • House blessings
  • Spiritual dedication ceremonies
  • Personal milestone ceremonies
  • Memorial rituals
  • Remembrance ceremonies

Ceremonies can be personalized according to the individual’s or family’s spiritual tradition and wishes.

Life Transitions & Rituals

Life contains many transitions that deserve to be acknowledged. Beyond the Bedside can help individuals and families create meaningful ceremonies or conversations around important life changes.

Examples include
  • Retirement
  • Marriage
  • New beginnings
  • Significant anniversaries
  • Relocation
  • Loss of independence
  • Aging
  • End of a career
  • Beginning a new chapter
  • Reconciliation
  • Remembrance
  • Significant personal milestones

A ritual does not have to be elaborate. Sometimes simply having a meaningful moment to acknowledge what has been lost, what has been learned and what comes next can be powerful.

Virtual psycho-spiritual support sessions

Compassionate support is not always possible in person.

Beyond the Bedside offers private virtual one-to-one psycho-spiritual support sessions for individuals who would prefer to receive support from the comfort and privacy of their own home. Virtual sessions provide a safe space to talk, reflect, process life experiences, explore spirituality and faith, and receive compassionate support during challenging seasons of life.

Private & convenientReceive support without having to travel, from a private location, using a secure virtual meeting platform.
By appointmentSessions are individualized according to what you need at that moment.

You do not need to have everything figured out before reaching out.

You can simply come as you are.

Sessions may support people experiencing

  • Grief and bereavement
  • Anticipatory grief
  • Life transitions
  • Loss and change
  • Loneliness
  • Spiritual questions or concerns
  • Questions of meaning and purpose
  • Relationship or family changes
  • Fear and uncertainty surrounding illness
  • End-of-life concerns
  • Caregiver stress
  • Spiritual distress
  • Questions surrounding faith
  • Loss of faith or changes in belief
  • Forgiveness and reconciliation
  • Life reflection
  • Personal growth and self-reflection
  • Major personal or family transitions

What a session may look like

  • Compassionate listening
  • Talking through what you are experiencing
  • Exploring thoughts and feelings
  • Spiritual reflection
  • Exploring personal beliefs and values
  • Prayer, when requested
  • Scripture or faith-based reflection, when desired
  • Exploring meaning and purpose
  • Grief and loss support
  • Life review
  • Reflection on relationships and important life experiences
  • Developing personal spiritual practices
  • Identifying sources of hope, strength, and support
  • Simply having someone present who will listen without judgment

A welcoming space for every belief

Support is available to individuals from a variety of spiritual, religious, and non-religious backgrounds.

My role is not to impose beliefs on you. It is to meet you where you are and provide compassionate, respectful support.

  • You are welcome whether youHave a strong faith
  • Are exploring your faith
  • Are questioning your beliefs
  • Have experienced a change in your faith
  • Consider yourself spiritual but not religious
  • Are unsure what you believe
  • Do not identify with a particular religion

Important scope of service

Beyond the Bedside provides spiritual care and psycho-spiritual support within a spiritual and pastoral framework.

These sessions are not a substitute for medical care, psychotherapy, psychology, psychiatry, crisis intervention, or other regulated clinical healthcare services.

If you are experiencing a mental-health crisis, are at immediate risk of harm, or require clinical treatment, you should contact an appropriate healthcare professional or emergency service.

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